MIKEDONAHUE the Lord knows her name
tanddjohnson thanks for the comments. Grave markers are so expensive but I hope they get her one soon. I know that is was a few months before we got my mother's and we made a homemade name plate so we could find it better.
They (memorial stones) are indeed incredibly expensive - but at least there is a little statue there. And the Lord does know her name. I am sorry for your loss. My mom and brother have bronze markers only. My other brother and my dad's ashes have not been "interrred" or scattered.